Well, now it is getting cold, so last night i decided to straighten my hair (via the chi iron). Everyone had a comment, which was expected because since i have been teaching at my school i have always had a fro. Got a similar reaction when I first cut my hair. The comments I got from students were interesting to say the least. I got "I like your hair," but there were other comments that really got me thinking when i got home. Here is a list of some of the comments from my students and other students that I have never taught:
- "You look sexy" (i thought this was completely inappropriate until i realized that was just a word equivalent to "hot")
- "You look like a movie star"
- "Oh my gosh, you look really pretty"
- "You look younger"
- "You look older"
- "Now you look about 20, so does that mean I can holler at you?" (yes, this was a student)
- "Do you have a date tonight?" (I guess they think I haven't had a date in 3 years since I haven't worn my hair straight in 3 years)
- "Let me take a picture"
- "You look soooo different"
- "I didn't know who you were"
- "That was not a good choice"
- "We want the old Ms. H back"
- Boys swarming around my classroom door and grinning at me all day
- 8th period students standing around my doorway looking during 2nd period
All in ONE day. Now, most of the comments were positive; one student hated it. At first i was thinking "damn, am i THAT unnattractive???" so many students were saying how pretty i looked today, and i wondered what they think of me normally? But when i got home, some of the reactions really saddened me; not because my feelings were hurt, but it just reminded me how brainwashed some of my students are and what their ideal of beauty is. I received soooo much attention today because i didn't want to catch a cold from walking out in the cold with wet hair! What a mess...should i not do this again?